Friends, I would love to give you a list of 6 aphrodisiac superherbs that you can munch on to get in the mood, but the truth is that it isn’t that simple. Here at Divine Flow Living, we know that our bodies are complex systems, with all aspects intertwined with each other. We are not into quick fixes, but rather, we promote the attitude and the lifestyle that get the best out of you, so to speak
Having said that, there are certainly six all-natural things that you can be doing, which will bestow upon you a noticeable difference in your bedroom activity. And once you experience the difference, you will quite likely want to make sure to create long-term habits around them.
1. Exercise
Yes, we know, and we’re sorry, but the simple truth is that our bodies work better when they’re in better shape. Every part! Get your heart beating consistently for at least 20 min. Go for long, exhilarating hikes. Run on the beach. Dance your heart out. Get a dog and walk it. Play tennis with friends. Do fitness exercises.
2. Diet
You don’t need us to tell you that you are what you eat. We could go into detail about certain foods rich in antioxidants and all that guff, but it boils down to one thing: eat healthily. Plenty of fruit and vegetables, tone down the meat intake, drink plenty of water. The right nutrients stimulate you both physically and mentally.
3. Communicate
If you’re looking for long-term sexual chemistry between lovers, then communication is key. Nothing makes for better sex more than talking about your desires, dreams, and taboos. Trust is essential for letting yourself go under the covers, and a strong, honest relationship will, frankly, get you laid more.
4. Be Happy
Sorry, guys, we don’t have a pill for this one, either. The pursuit of happiness is a human favorite, but it’s not always that easy. Figure out what makes you happy and put more of it into your life. A discontented person is at odds with their body and their mind. Unhappy people don’t tend to want to do it, if you know what I mean.
5. Make The Effort
Nothing is sexier, for you or your partner, than letting each other know that you want them. One of you may come home grumpy from work, but if you’re greeted at the door by your naked partner and a tub of chocolate spread, you’ll probably find energy you never knew you had! Pay attention to your partner’s needs. Give massages. Run a bath. Make their favorite dessert. Kiss them whenever you can.
6. Aphrodisiac Essential Oils
Throughout history, people have used aphrodisiac scents to set the mood. Ancient Indians mention using certain essential oils and spices in the Kama Sutra and Egypt’s famous Queen Cleopatra is said to have used essential oils to seduce her lovers. Some of the more well-known essential oils that act as an aphrodisiac are: lavender, vanilla, jasmine, cinnamon and sandalwood.
Our Divine Flow essential oil blend is made with extracts from sandalwood, benzoin (balsamic tree resin that smells like vanilla) and different alluring flowers. It is quite an uplifting and stimulating concoction. You can get it in our shop.
Closing
And there you have it. It might not have been what you were expecting, but anyone can reel off a list of exotic roots. Here at Divine Flow Living, we are invested in the whole experience that life brings us. Sex can’t be separated from the rest of it – that’s where the problems start. Surround your senses with the things that make the best of you: Friends. Lovers. Sunshine. An enchanting novel, a heady scent, rich, ripe fruits. The rewards are worth it!
